I used to be frighteningly under confident in social situations. And although people who know me now would never believe I used to doubt myself so much I literally had to learn confidence until it became a natural part of me. I can tell you relaxed optimistic confidence is just, well so much more fun.

Here I’ll tell you about the things that made the most difference to my confidence levels… [Read more →]

Shy people instinctively know that they are missing out. Shyness equals lost opportunities, less pleasure and fewer social connections. Shyness can be crippling but there are tried and tested ways to make it a thing of the past. [Read more →]

When we talk about dating in the very finest sense of the word, please understand that dating is not to be viewed as a precursor for sleeping together. It is much more than that. It is the first step towards choosing a life partner and online dating has made the whole process a lot simpler now. [Read more →]

Online dating has become a major way of meeting a new partner with many people getting married after meeting someone online. But what is the difference from normal dating and why has online dating become so popular? [Read more →]

Men… if you are having trouble attracting women then who do you think would be the best person to teach you how to do it? You are probably thinking another man who has great success already with attracting women. But, what could be better than being taught by an expert who really knows what women want from a man… such as a woman herself?

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For many people, starting a conversation with a stranger is an intimidating task. But for you, after reading this article, it will be a breeze. [Read more →]

Last week I had the easiest pick up and lay in my life, and it all started with me walking by a random girl and saying (using a clear, resonating voice and disinterested, but relaxed and sexual body language), “Hey.”

She looked up, expecting me to say something interesting. [Read more →]

Let’s say you are sitting on a park bench with a beautiful woman. She is totally hot and you want to start to chat with her, to ask her out.Most guys would just look over with that cocky grin, or even worse, that look of terror like a deer caught in the headlights of a car at night, and to the best of their ability say something along the lines of: “Hey, How you doing? Listen, if you’re free this Saturday night, how ’bout the two of us going out to dinner together? We could maybe have a really good time or something?” [Read more →]

Standing at the magazine rack thumbing through Cosmo, she has the most gorgeous face you’ve ever seen. Her hair is silky brown. Her skin looks so radiant and so incredibly soft. You would be on top of the world if you could pick her this girl up. But,it’s not easy to start a conversation with a woman, especially if they are really attractive. [Read more →]

We need to understand a very basic fact. Women are naturally, automatically attracted to guys that are confident and comfortable with themselves and the lady. It’s thousands of years of “Survival Instinct” subconsciously and sometimes even consciously, programmed into their heads. [Read more →]

Online dating has become very popular in recent years but for anyone who is new to online dating and doesn’t know where to begin, then here are a few tips to help you get started and avoid the mistakes that newcomers can make due to their inexperience. [Read more →]

We’ve all had that special woman in our lives. You know… the one with the sweet personality, the really nice hair and a perfect face. She dates the more “adept” guys… but how can you get her to like you? [Read more →]

ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you’d be surprised by how many men don’t understand the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it’s become a bit of a cliché because it’s true — first impressions really do count. [Read more →]

I want to share a story with you all that I thought was interesting.

Friday night, I was out with a friend of mine clubbing. As we were walking from one club to another, we saw two women walking together in front of us.

These women were HOT!

So hot, in fact, that every guy they passed by on the sidewalk tried to talk to them. How did they try this? By saying things like: [Read more →]

You know, my life is pretty interesting. Every day my mailbox gets flooded with questions from guys looking for help with women. And often times, I make time to respond (after all, I wish there was someone around when I was struggling with women I could email for advice!).

But some of the emails often cover the same problems, so I thought I’d share some of my responses with you in case you have a similar situation going on. [Read more →]